Having trouble manifesting your goals or wishes??? 

Ok as I do I ponder the mysteries of the universe from time to time :-) And from my research, own experience and observation I have become aware of several reasons why people don't manifest their dreams and goals and some tips and insights that may benefit you.

1. Most of us now who are on this personal development path have either watched or read the secret and was a big hype for many years that if we just focus on what we want we will manifest all the things we want into our lives as "where energy flows attention goes right? well there is truth in that, but let me ask you a question how has that process alone worked for you up till now??? 

Truth is there are vital ingredients that are left out of the secret and also I have found that every leader, book, workshop etc has truth to what they are saying but often they don't give you the full recipe! The recipe being each vital ingredient and the process from the start to the end result! 

In this post I am not going to tell you the full recipe as it will take too long and also my recipe is experiential therefor it is still in the development process, as I don't necessarily have all the answers either but like everyone else I am open to learning, experimenting, exploring, being curious and discovering what doesn't work, and what does work. 

A few ingrdients I will share today to help you on your path are the following:

1. Sometimes what you say you want and what you actually want are out of alignment, therefor your going to have trouble manifesting because it is something that is not truly important to you on a unconscious level, there are other things that are more important. Therfor the key is to really discover what it is you would LOVE!!! to manifest! is it a 10 out of 10 in how achieivng that goal would make you feel??? or is it just a 3 or 4 for example? when you set a goal check in with your bodys signals, and ask yourself how does this feel? If it feels in alignment you will really get inspired and energized about wanting to achieve that goal? If you don't then drop that goal as it is just going to frustrate you, because your setting goals that are 1. not your goals and you have set goals based on other peoples expectations they have projected onto you, or 2. You just write goals based on your minds ideas and not really getting in touch with your heart and soul when you sit and write out your goals, be ok with taking time out to really sit still be present, relaxed and away from any outside influences or distractions and ask yourself this question: What is it my soul really wants to have or experience next? what is truly important to me in this stage of my life? Getting real and honest with ourselves is the 1st step and in deep alignment with our souls desires not just our ego desires, sure a nice car or materialistic things are nice to have and not saying you cant make those as goals aswell, but often enough it is not the materialistic goals that brings fulfilment alone as there is usually and underlying need or feeling that having those things gives you, so if you dig a bit deeper start to get in touch with what it is that you truly you desire that will bring soulful heart felt fulfilment to you? what is it?

2.) The next step after you have discovered what it is you want to manifest and it feels in true alignment with your mind heart and soul where there is no doubt but pure alignment, the next step is to take action - whether it is small action each day towards that goal, action is vital, as you can't just sit around and hope for the Gods to give you everything you wish for, you have to take action even 1% action everyday towards what you desire will make a rapid difference and being consistent is key, and as you do your part in the process you also allow room for the universe to help you and bring into alignment your goals and soulful desires. 

3.) In the bible in Mark chapter 11:24 this pretty much sums up what the secret is about,
"I tell you, you can ask for anything, and if you believe that you've received it, it will be yours" Even God said this in the bible, the key word here after you have asked for what you want is the BELIEVE! Believing you are worthy of having whatever you ask for and it is truly in alignment with yourself and is for the greater good there is no reason why it won't be yours, many people get stuck at this point because their limiting beliefs or programmed beliefs of doubt and insecurity pop up and on a unconscious level don't feel they can really achieve it, the thing is you can have anything you want once you give up the beliefs why you can't have it! So if you have any limiting beliefs that need reavaluating and changing to more empowering beliefs that more in alignment with what you want will help with the manifestation process.

4.) Patience!!!! As human being we want everything right now and on our doorstep delivered overnight, the thing is sometimes it's Gods timing and not always our own, I believe there is a balance between doing our part in the process, which is setting your intention, your goals are in alignment, clearing out any blocks that are preventing the flow of your goals coming to you, and then handing the rest over to God/the universe to also do their part, and in my experience timing is everything and patience is a fruit of the spirit, so exercising patience is vital part of the process, because sometimes getting everything you want when you want it can have consequences if there are other factors that need to be taking into consideration or dealt with first. 

5.) Enjoy your life as it is now, full complete acceptance of where you are right now is vital! Being in the NOW and living your life as best as you can, rather than only being happy when you achieve your goals, this is not the case, you have to feel good now, even if the circumstances are not 100% and not what you truly want, fighting that is only going to make it worse as what you resist persists. So full acceptance of being fine with how life is now is going to relax you as a person, knowing on a deeper level you are exactly where you need to be in this very moment for your evolution, and once you accept that, then from that place it is easier to move forward and take action towards your new hearts desires. 

6.) Last step for now - Stay true to yourself! always let your heart and soul be your guide, love yourself for who you are and look after yourself, we are multi dimensional beings therfor staying in balance and harmony takes daily effort to keep in balance the mind body and spiritual aspects of ourselves,
and at times we need to not try so hard or push too hard but take time to just relax and enjoy the process of life and let it unfold, as the more you are in the flow and feeling good energetically physically and emotionally the easier it is that other areas of your life can begin to flow and you will find that more synchronicities begin to happen and more miraculous manifestation of what you want happens when your in this flow rather than pushing against the flow. Remember Balance is key! and at times we need help and assistance from others to help shift some unconscious blocks that are preventing us from moving forward in life whether it is energetic blocks, physical or emotional or all 3, and realize it is ok to ask for guidance and help and you don't have to do this journey alone, and if you look around you, you have all the people and resources you need in your life already smile emoticonwhether that be myself as a coach, or someone else let your intuition be your guide :-)xxx

For now wish you much love peace and flow smile emoticon and happy manifesting whats truly important to you. 

Julia Huzzifff :-)xxx

Sometimes we go through patches in life where we may feel stuck in life, perhaps frustrated or feel something is missing or just too much going on at once and be overwhelming, and this is not necessarily a bad thing to experience as everyone goes through different seasons and periods in our lifes and not just talking about monthly periods ;-) but sometimes what we think is important to us and what we actually are doing in our day to day lives is not in alignment with each other creating a conflict between the conscious and unconscious mind and anytime there is a conflict the unconscious mind will win because it runs the body. When life feels overwhelming or at times perhaps chaotic this can be a good sign in the bigger picture of evolutionary growth as it brings unconscious patterns to your conscious attention areas in your life that you have perhaps been pushing aside and avoiding, but eventually if you don't do anything about it things become so intense and overwhelming that 2 things start to occur first one is

1. You can avoid feeling and experiencing the creation you are in and go back unconscious again by suppressing your feelings and the stuff that has come up to your awareness for a reason to help you, instead if you choose to supress it back down into unconsciousness and let it run out old coping mechanisms which can range from 100s different one's which could be: drinking or smoking to cover up feeling or dealing with anything, distracting yourself , excess talking, excess exercise, sexual activity to try get rid of the energy coming in, or could be controlling or blaming others reacting automatically, or 100s of other ways we can go unconscious to avoid feeling and experiencing what comes up for us, this way can create perhaps some temporary relief but doesn't change the behaviour or unconscious patterns and will keep happening over and over again as you havnt made any per many changes.

Option 2.

The old system (your internal map of reality) begins to fall away creating room for a new system ( a new resouceful internal map of reality) this phase your unconscious programs that have been running your life are no longer serving you in a resourceful way and brings to your conscious attention so strongly it is almost impossible to not notice how you have been creating this through faulty unresourceful belief systems that we have picked up from our upbringing, environment etc, also becoming aware of unproductive habits, thought patterns, strategies, values conflicts that Have been playing out, all this stuff comes to your conscious awareness, this is when real Change and growth occurs because with awareness creates change and we can then choose to believe something more helpful to give us a result do want and create new strategies, also a Chance to change our habits, and align ourselves with our true values of what is truly important to us, this is the exciting part as no longer the unconscious programs are running your life and you get to create a new way of being that is more resourceful and in alignment with your true hearts desires allowing you to create results that serve you more in your life . This phase can be most rewarding if you persavere and not allow yourself to go back into unconsciousness which can happen a lot of the time because old unconscious patterns get stirred up and brought to the surface because the old way of doing something even if it's not useful has been associated on a deeper level with safety so the old system tries to keep you in that old pattern because it thinks it is trying to keep you safe, this is when resistance can come In with change as it can feel uncomfortable to change what is familiar and what we are use to, but once we aware of this and how the unconscious mind works we can then associate the new beleifs, patterns, habits, behaviours, with safety as well and at times can be useful to have a coach to help you with this process so doesn't feel like your falling apart in the process but what actually happens is the old system falls apart and a new better version is created once we let go of the old and let go of the resistance.

They say in personal growth after chaos and confusion comes clarity and i feel this is true as we strip away layers that no longer serve us to make room for the new
Hopefully this was helpful and if anyone has any questions feel free to private message me if you would like some assistance or coaching to help assist you on your journey.

Julia Huzziff xxx