Ok as I do I ponder the mysteries of the universe from time to time :-) And from my research, own experience and observation I have become aware of several reasons why people don't manifest their dreams and goals and some tips and insights that may benefit you.
1. Most of us now who are on this personal development path have either watched or read the secret and was a big hype for many years that if we just focus on what we want we will manifest all the things we want into our lives as "where energy flows attention goes right? well there is truth in that, but let me ask you a question how has that process alone worked for you up till now???
Truth is there are vital ingredients that are left out of the secret and also I have found that every leader, book, workshop etc has truth to what they are saying but often they don't give you the full recipe! The recipe being each vital ingredient and the process from the start to the end result!
In this post I am not going to tell you the full recipe as it will take too long and also my recipe is experiential therefor it is still in the development process, as I don't necessarily have all the answers either but like everyone else I am open to learning, experimenting, exploring, being curious and discovering what doesn't work, and what does work.
A few ingrdients I will share today to help you on your path are the following:
1. Sometimes what you say you want and what you actually want are out of alignment, therefor your going to have trouble manifesting because it is something that is not truly important to you on a unconscious level, there are other things that are more important. Therfor the key is to really discover what it is you would LOVE!!! to manifest! is it a 10 out of 10 in how achieivng that goal would make you feel??? or is it just a 3 or 4 for example? when you set a goal check in with your bodys signals, and ask yourself how does this feel? If it feels in alignment you will really get inspired and energized about wanting to achieve that goal? If you don't then drop that goal as it is just going to frustrate you, because your setting goals that are 1. not your goals and you have set goals based on other peoples expectations they have projected onto you, or 2. You just write goals based on your minds ideas and not really getting in touch with your heart and soul when you sit and write out your goals, be ok with taking time out to really sit still be present, relaxed and away from any outside influences or distractions and ask yourself this question: What is it my soul really wants to have or experience next? what is truly important to me in this stage of my life? Getting real and honest with ourselves is the 1st step and in deep alignment with our souls desires not just our ego desires, sure a nice car or materialistic things are nice to have and not saying you cant make those as goals aswell, but often enough it is not the materialistic goals that brings fulfilment alone as there is usually and underlying need or feeling that having those things gives you, so if you dig a bit deeper start to get in touch with what it is that you truly you desire that will bring soulful heart felt fulfilment to you? what is it?
2.) The next step after you have discovered what it is you want to manifest and it feels in true alignment with your mind heart and soul where there is no doubt but pure alignment, the next step is to take action - whether it is small action each day towards that goal, action is vital, as you can't just sit around and hope for the Gods to give you everything you wish for, you have to take action even 1% action everyday towards what you desire will make a rapid difference and being consistent is key, and as you do your part in the process you also allow room for the universe to help you and bring into alignment your goals and soulful desires.
3.) In the bible in Mark chapter 11:24 this pretty much sums up what the secret is about,
"I tell you, you can ask for anything, and if you believe that you've received it, it will be yours" Even God said this in the bible, the key word here after you have asked for what you want is the BELIEVE! Believing you are worthy of having whatever you ask for and it is truly in alignment with yourself and is for the greater good there is no reason why it won't be yours, many people get stuck at this point because their limiting beliefs or programmed beliefs of doubt and insecurity pop up and on a unconscious level don't feel they can really achieve it, the thing is you can have anything you want once you give up the beliefs why you can't have it! So if you have any limiting beliefs that need reavaluating and changing to more empowering beliefs that more in alignment with what you want will help with the manifestation process.
4.) Patience!!!! As human being we want everything right now and on our doorstep delivered overnight, the thing is sometimes it's Gods timing and not always our own, I believe there is a balance between doing our part in the process, which is setting your intention, your goals are in alignment, clearing out any blocks that are preventing the flow of your goals coming to you, and then handing the rest over to God/the universe to also do their part, and in my experience timing is everything and patience is a fruit of the spirit, so exercising patience is vital part of the process, because sometimes getting everything you want when you want it can have consequences if there are other factors that need to be taking into consideration or dealt with first.
5.) Enjoy your life as it is now, full complete acceptance of where you are right now is vital! Being in the NOW and living your life as best as you can, rather than only being happy when you achieve your goals, this is not the case, you have to feel good now, even if the circumstances are not 100% and not what you truly want, fighting that is only going to make it worse as what you resist persists. So full acceptance of being fine with how life is now is going to relax you as a person, knowing on a deeper level you are exactly where you need to be in this very moment for your evolution, and once you accept that, then from that place it is easier to move forward and take action towards your new hearts desires.
6.) Last step for now - Stay true to yourself! always let your heart and soul be your guide, love yourself for who you are and look after yourself, we are multi dimensional beings therfor staying in balance and harmony takes daily effort to keep in balance the mind body and spiritual aspects of ourselves,
and at times we need to not try so hard or push too hard but take time to just relax and enjoy the process of life and let it unfold, as the more you are in the flow and feeling good energetically physically and emotionally the easier it is that other areas of your life can begin to flow and you will find that more synchronicities begin to happen and more miraculous manifestation of what you want happens when your in this flow rather than pushing against the flow. Remember Balance is key! and at times we need help and assistance from others to help shift some unconscious blocks that are preventing us from moving forward in life whether it is energetic blocks, physical or emotional or all 3, and realize it is ok to ask for guidance and help and you don't have to do this journey alone, and if you look around you, you have all the people and resources you need in your life already smile emoticonwhether that be myself as a coach, or someone else let your intuition be your guide :-)xxx
For now wish you much love peace and flow smile emoticon and happy manifesting whats truly important to you.
Julia Huzzifff :-)xxx