projecting your values onto others destroys relationships when you expect them to live outside what is truly important to them, People want to be loved for who they are and their highest values and if you cant love people for that then relationships seem to crumble,
Taking time to sit down and discover what is truly important to others builds up relationships because you can understand what truly inspires them and love them for who they are and what they bring to the relationship because people are their true selves when they are doing whats truly important to them and they become inauthentic and scattered and frustrated when they live according to injected values of what their partner or friends or family or others want them to do, and eventually will get frustrated with themselves because their soul is constantly trying to pull them back to whats truly important to them and staying true to themselves and their soul, we are not here to be what other people want us to be we are here to be true selves. xo
Taking time to sit down and discover what is truly important to others builds up relationships because you can understand what truly inspires them and love them for who they are and what they bring to the relationship because people are their true selves when they are doing whats truly important to them and they become inauthentic and scattered and frustrated when they live according to injected values of what their partner or friends or family or others want them to do, and eventually will get frustrated with themselves because their soul is constantly trying to pull them back to whats truly important to them and staying true to themselves and their soul, we are not here to be what other people want us to be we are here to be true selves. xo