What area of your life would you like to create more positive changes in?
as you go through life and as you continue to keep increasing your consciousness and expand your awareness, you will start to see how your internal map of reality is shaping the world you live in. There will be areas in your life that are working fairy well, perhaps very well, and if you look at other areas of your life you will see it is either what you might choose to label quite shit! lol, usually where you put your most attention and whats important to you most at the unconscious level is where you excel in most, and where you don't put much attention is where the opposite is usually occuring, not really rocket science just your blue print - and in NLP they call your internal map of reality based on your unconscious programming of beliefs, habits, paradyms, values, strategies etc.
You will also find that there is huge resistance in you to the areas that you havn't invested much attention towards, and no or very little resistance to what you love doing the most, sometimes when people say they want to create some sort of change in their life, sometimes it can create a bit of chaos before clarity because the unconscious mind doesn't like change, it likes repetition and likes doing the same thing over and over, hence why you seem a lot of people do the same things over and over week by week year by year, if they don't become consciously aware of their blueprint, they can also create the same challenges, issues, illnesses over and over again until they get the lesson and change the program.
We think we need to keep clearing the past, and doing lots of inner work, but sometimes the key is to focus on building the new or we will forever find something that we think needs clearing, which is not necessarily the case, there's a time and place for that as sometimes you have to go back a little to move forward to see where this pattern originated, then clear the charge of past events that creating the same trigger, this can be good in post traumatic stress and other issues, but there also a time to plant new seeds and start putting our attention on to what we want, instead of what we don't want. People start putting their attention on what they don't want when they hit this resistance, fear, all their unconscious programming comes up to sometimes feels like it haunts them, thats when other tools are helpful to work through this resistance to find out whats going on, someone who has had a lot of trauma in their life from various of events do this a lot because the unconscious mind is always trying to preserve the body and keep it safe, so when something triggers a certain memory in someone that is linked to a past event where there was a lot of trauma and fear of death, or really bad experience and the brain has associated danger and negative associations with that event, the same feelings and memories can reoccur everytime someone is reminded them of that trigger or something that might link up to the same sort of scenario, and this safety issue comes up where they don't feel safe so helping someone to feel safe again is the approach and various tools and re-patterning is essential.
Consciousness is very interesting and many different aspects and layers to look at, its not a straight forward one answer approach, every individual can be very unique because everyone has a different view of reality based on their programming from a early age, and therfor filter the world completely differently to another person depending on their upbringing, and many aspects. My point from this message actually was about expanding ones awareness to the degree that you become aware of your internal map of reality , your programming, and whether or not its serves you in a positive way, one way to check is to look at the results your getting in each area of your life, are the results your getting what you truly desire?
"insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result"
sometimes we need to address and look at one area at a time perhaps and look at what results your getting, if your not getting the results you are after in that particular area, to go back and look at your beliefs, your habits, your strategies and how to do things a bit differently that might start to produce the result you are after, sometimes its trial and error, so don't get up set if you try something and it backfires or doesn't work, its all about finding what works what doesn't :-) and sometimes repetition is needed to form a new habit,
If you are feeling stuck in any area of your life please private message me I offering coaching sessions over the phone or facetime and happy to help any way I can :-)
Thankyou
Julia xx
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